Mr. Eduardo Vásquez Carrasco Psychologist-psychotherapist
Kevin has 19 years, a few years ago he left the school, has been entertaining in part-time work but her parents are pushing for entering college, he agrees but does not know what to apply, has designed a couple of ideas but not be afraid sufficiently prepared to enter college. This may be the case more or less like many teenagers are among the limbo of school and university, or technical.
one hand the pressure to "do something for life, "" hope "of the parents placed on him the need to perform academically, the uncertainty of the new and unknown, and so on. Of course, not all teens are fully aware of everything involved in career choice, but no longer fall prey to insecurity. In all the above can be added all the complications that each family adds to its existence.
Without entering into many philosophical considerations obviously is a decision-making problem, decide on something and run. But the issue is how to decide, not getting around the issue we will raise a number of questions that, if properly answered, they can cast much light when deciding on a career option and not die trying. The questions are:
- What do you do the rest of your life? (Not what others want.) In addition you must answer: is it important for you to achieve what you want? The more means for you is more likely to get it. Your answer should be formulated positively, that is, you say what you want to do or study and not what you do not want. It should be something that is within your capabilities and opportunities, both academic and economic and other you can think of, remember that the execution of your choice professionals depend on you, nobody will look for you or going to practice a profession for you.
- How do you know your career choice is final, "that is, how can you prove that you know what you do, what you see, hear, feel, etc. The more clear you have that, is it because you do not get distracted on what you do not.
- Where, when and with whom they want to pursue your career choice?, Ie you must be very clear about the context in which you fulfill your career choice. In which institution, in which city, in much time, with whom, etc..
- What prevents you from achieving your career choice now?, Ie what are the natural obstacles of life that prevent you decide on a career choice and run it right now, you Planearte how to overcome these obstacles.
- What are the positive and negative consequences of implementing your career choice? Each profession or occupation has pros and cons, you should set your priorities, you want a job of economic satisfaction, or what kind.
- What resources do you need to run your career choice? It may be information from universities or institutes, money, support from others, academic preparation, a suitable internal state, a positive attitude, etc. should consider these resources and seek to have them covered.
- What is the first step in choosing your career choice? Should be more concrete and achievable as possible, perhaps seeking information on the Internet, talk to your parents about financing, chat with friends or acquaintances who have different professions, go to a professional counselor, etc.
Is - more than one way to choose your career choice? So you have more options, such as a plan B or C.
- What timeframe do you need? Put time limits and no delay to the time.
- Finally, imagine that you stand in the future, when you already have it clear that you do about your career choice. Look back and see what steps were necessary to perform to achieve your career choice now that I have.
At this point you are better able to meet your career choice, good luck.
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